christian singles mingle : The Best Christian Dates

2008-05-14 15:42:39

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Christian singles mingle – are you getting ready for the perfect date?

Have you been calling and emailing for a while. So you’re ready for the next step – a face to face meeting? This is a time of anxiety and then all the questions begin –
- Was the picture I saw 10 years old?
- What should I wear?

This is normal. The first date makes everyone nervous- even christian singles mingle.

So why not take a step back and concentrate on a few things:
1. You are fantastic!
Why else has this person been emailing you and talking to you for so long. You must have sparked that interest. No one spends so much time with someone they don’t want to get to know. This is all a good sign! A good sign for christian singles mingle.

2. You are fantastic!
Even if this date doesn’t prove to be all you hoped for – you are still fantastic. Put it behind you and move on.

Now – how to make your first date a memorable experience.
1. Be realistic.
Don’t start this date imagining it will end with a ride together into the sunset. Imagine having a good time with good conversation – then you won’t be disappointed.

2. Be yourself.
Don’t feign an interest in something just because you know it’s his/her interest too. Maybe you don’t know a lot about something he or she likes – but so what? There are things that interest you that are just as important – they make you yourself – and that counts.

A Short First Date
Don’t spend hours struggling through this first date. Keep it just to lunch or an hour dinner. Then if you really like each other you can make another date.

Be a good listener and a good talker
Some people tend to find it difficult to talk about themselves – so help keep the conversation flowing. Don’t leave it all up to him/her to do the talking.

Leave a way out
So dates go bad and even scary. So make plans to meet some friends and warn your date beforehand – this way you can leave tactfully if you feel you have to.

Most important – be safe. Tell your friends who you are with, where you’ll be and when they can expect you back.


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